On Pies in Faces (updated 7/4/21)

Moving forward, as new pie-in-the-face events happen in my life, I'll just add them here at the top of this page, so older material will show up below. Keep scrolling!

7/4/2021: The friend and coworker who has pied me a few times over the last few years was game to do so again, this time in a "Farewell" video, as she has left for a new job, which means that she is no longer my coworker. Hopefully we can schedule some future filming shenanigans (she didn't move, she just works someplace else now), but for now, we made this quick gift-exchange video, in which I give her a bottle of booze and she gives me a pie in the face. Yes, it's usually the departing worker who is supposed to get pied, but what do I care about tradition?

On a production note, I have to admit to liking my casual, hands-in-pockets acceptance of the pie.

I may make a video about the making of the pie we used in this one...I was disappointed in the consistency of the frozen coconut cream pie with which I got hit the last time (in an unreleased video, which we really can't use because the sound is terrible, owing to the wind that day), so for this occasion I made a specialty pie to be hit with. This thing was heavy and it splattered magnificently.

3/14/2018: It's Pi Day! I, of course, honored this most wonderfully geeky holiday by getting hit with pies, this time silent-film comedy style. Enjoy!

6/20/2017: A friend of mine named Joyce saw a photo of me getting pied and said, "I want to do that!" So I filed that away for future reference, and last week--after she celebrated a birthday and after I got the e-books of AMONGST THE STARS done--we connected to celebrate both events, with her hitting me in the face with a pie.

As one does.


My friend Joyce had a birthday! I released a book! Time for celebrating with PIE!!! #pieintheface #pieintheeye #splat #pieinface #overalls #vintage #Key #herringbone #dungarees #huzzah

Splat! video stills

Splat! video stills

Splat! video stills

Aftermath! Soupy Sales had nothing on me. #pieintheface #pieintheeye #splat #pieinface #overalls #vintage #Key #herringbone #dungarees #huzzah

And of course, there's video!

Truly a blast!

3/14/2017: Today is Pi Day! Without further ado:

Final Pi Day preview! The last second, Prismafied. Video and other stuff tomorrow! #piday #pieintheface #pieinface #pieface #splat #pietotheface #overalls #vintage #Lee #bluedenim #dungarees #denim #rawdenim #doubledenim

Pi Day impact, close-up

And the final bit of #piday content for this year! Aftermath, Prismafied. Huzzah! #pieintheface

Happy Pi Day 2017!!!

Pi Day 2017 Outtakes and Variations

The pie in use here was just aeresol-can whipped cream dispensed into a graham-cracker shell. This isn't my preferred way to go, as I've discussed before, but if time is a factor, it works. For best results, make sure the pie is in the recipient's face within just two or three minutes of dispensing. Spray-can stuff breaks down very quickly. Oh, and use the "Extra creamy" stuff with real cream in it.

3/12/2017: It's almost Pi Day! As I write this, I've already shot a celebratory video. That will appear on 3-14 itself, but if you're wondering, yes, this lovely pie wound up in my face.

Pie for Pi Day

Tune in on Tuesday!

6/26/2016: A new pieing! I have a friend from work who is quite the active cosplayer, and a while back she noted some of the nifty locations in our region's local nature parks, some of which look like locales from a fantasy setting. She requested that I photograph her in costume in that park (Chestnut Ridge, if you must know -- lots of really neat stone structures there, built during the WPA in the Depression), and I joked that she could "pay" me with a pie in my face.

Well, guess what.

Her costume is based on a character from My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic called "Nightmare Moon". I don't know anything about this, but it's a nifty costume and she pied me quite nicely. Here are photos and video from that pieing!

A brief conversation before she pies me.

Everybody's a comedian. #pieintheface #overalls #Dickies #vintage #bluedenim #plaid #cosplay #mylittlepony #nightmaremoon

1/3 She sneaks from behind, pie in hand.... (video to come) #pieintheface #overalls #Dickies #bluedenim #plaid #cosplay #mylittlepony #nightmaremoon

Splat (edited)

3/3 She takes delight in her handiwork. #pieintheface #overalls #Dickies #bluedenim #plaid #cosplay #mylittlepony #nightmaremoon


Video of my cosplaying friend pieing me in the face, as one does.

Video: my cosplaying friend pies me again. Hilarity ensues.

I just love this:

Last one of these (video later) but she really seems to have enjoyed pieing me. #pieintheface #overalls #Dickies #bluedenim #plaid #cosplay #mylittlepony #nightmaremoon


UPDATE 3/16/2016: Unfortunately, I was unable to properly celebrate Pi Day this year, but I did rework some of my old footage from my "Porphyria Pie Challenge" video into a fake commercial for a topical treatment for Resting Bitch Face!

Enjoy! And now, the main page content:


Few things in life make me happier than a pie in the face, so I created this page to gather all my thoughts on pieings in one place. Here I go into things like why I love pieings and being pied, my thoughts on how to best deliver and receive a pie in the face, and stuff like that.

I pied myself today as part of the #porphyriapiechallenge. Why this challenge? Because a big part of these is raising awareness, and I had never heard of pprphyria, which is a pretty rare condition, apparently.

Pie in the face: Playing with the new app and filters III

Pie in the face: A Marie Callender's Coconut Cream Pie, prior to dispatch into my face

Pie in the face: National Pie Day! Too bad I won't be officially observing it. Alas!

Pie in the face: Spl-lat

Pie in the face: What it feels like to be a Bills fan these days

For as long as I can remember, I thought a pie in the face was the coolest, funniest, funnest-looking thing that could happen to a person. I don't remember a time when I didn't think a pie in the face was just awesome, and I always wanted it to happen to me...and then, one fine day, it did. My beautiful wife, who puts up with more strangeness from me than she probably deserves, hit me in the face with what has become many cream pies over the years. That's love, folks! Yes, I was a little nervous, the first time she hit me, but then I loved it. It's awesome. We do it once a year or so, and I always look forward to it with a lot of excitement.

Who knows, though -- when I'm a famous author and going on book tours and stuff, maybe I'll incorporate pieings into my events! And it would be fun to be able to participate in a good old-fashioned pie fight. A guy can dream, can't he?

Pie in the face: I Get Hit in the Face with a Pie (on National Pie Day).

More videos of me getting pied in the face are at the bottom of this page...but for now, how did this weirdness get started?

Pie in the face: With the Pie I

Well, like I said, I've always thought that a pie in the face is a grand thing, and growing up in the 1970s, pies in the face were still a comedic staple. You'd see people get hit with pies on game shows, and on variety shows, on sitcoms...even on Sesame Street. Those were the days....

I can't embed it, but here's a wonderful clip of Moe Howard appearing on the old Mike Douglas Show and offering some pie-hitting pointers. And here are two GIFs of the roomies from Three's Company getting pied. (Well, Janet and Jack get pied. Chrissy, in order to avoid getting pied, pies herself.)

But anyway, how did I get started getting hit with pies? Well, it all goes back to Little Quinn's brief lifetime. In his first few months, virtually all of our energy went into his care, to the point where The Wife and I started to kind-of lose track of one another. It was awful, but we recognized it and started carving out time and opportunity for each other -- usually just a few minutes here, an hour or so there. We needed ways to be together, to let off steam, and to find reasons to smile and laugh.

Enter my odd fascination with the pie in the face.

ME: "Have you ever wondered what a pie in the face felt like?"

SHE: "Not really. You have?"

ME: "Yeah. Want to try it?"

SHE: "You mean, me hitting you in the face with a pie?"

ME: "Yeah."

She thinks.

SHE: I don't want to get hit myself.

ME: That's fair.

SHE: So it would just be me hitting you.

ME: I'm fine with that.

SHE: Well OK, get a pie and I'll hit you in the face with it.

ME: Really?

SHE: Yeah.

ME: You're really willing to give me a pie in the face?

SHE: Sure, why not?

HE: Well, it's kinda weird, isn't it?

SHE: You're worried about looking weird, now?

HE: Good point.

And thus a tradition was born...a tradition that consists of my wonderful wife smashing pies into my face. The first few times were a bit dodgy, but once she figured out how hard to properly hit me for maximum facial coverage and splatter, well...huzzah!

Pie in the face: Splat! The meeting of Pie and Face

Pie in the face: Happy Birthday to Me! VI: The pies go in my face, Huzzah!

Pie in the face: Guess what happened to me today....

With the expected results:

Pie in the face: Slapstick Sequence!

French Silk in my face


Pie in the face: Splat! The Aftermath of three coconut cream pies in my face

Pie in the face: Happy Birthday to Me! V: Double Denim and pies in my face

Pie in the face: My oh my, the tie-dyed guy is pied

This was a week that just cried out for a pie in the face! #pieintheface #overalls #Dickies #bluedenim #plaid

In a lot of ways, I owe this tradition to my son. I wonder how he might think about the fact that part of his legacy is his father getting pied in the face on a regular basis...but I thank him for it. Thank you, Quinn!

Over the years since I've been posting about pies in the face, I've received some questions about the whole affair, so here is some mechanical detail about how to go about pieing and/or being pied. Some of these queries have actually been asked of me; others I've seen in my traffic reports as being the search engine strings used that led people here.

1. What kind of pie do you use?

First things first: No shaving cream. I don't care how well the stuff sticks to your face, and it really does stick wonderfully, because it's made to stick to the face. The problem is that it's soap. It tastes terrible, and it can sting the eyes. I'm pretty adamant that if a pie is going in my face, it had better be edible.

(Now, if you're doing some sort of theatrical presentation where quick and non-stinky cleanup is a factor, then you probably want to use shaving cream. What kind? No idea. I'm not getting pied as an actor, so I'm not using this stuff.)

So, what does that leave?

Aeresol whipped cream. Meh. This stuff doesn't stick very well, and it melts very quickly, unless you can find the heavier variety that is marketed to food service rather than the light stuff you buy at the grocery store. It's OK in a pinch, but I would never choose it willingly. For best results, a pie made with this stuff should be splatted relatively gently and then smeared around the recipient's face a little -- not a whole lot, just a bit.

UPDATE: I've actually revised my opinions on spray-can whipped cream a bit! Details in this post!

The Hit!


Cool-Whip. Better than the aeresol stuff, but I find that by itself, it doesn't stick to the face very well, either. What helps is to mix the Cool-Whip with a stickier material, like cake frosting. What you can do is take an empty crust, either graham-cracker or one you bake (let it cool first), and fill it with some pudding (choose your flavor, I generally go with vanilla) and then top it with a mixture of a container of Cool-Whip into which you've whisked half a container of frosting. This seems to work pretty well.

Meringue. No. Just godawful. It doesn't stick at all. If you want to have a pie in the face experience that leaves as little pie on the face as possible, meringue is the way to go. Otherwise, fuhgeddaoudit.

Crust -- yes or no? Always use a crust. Always, always, always! A crust will pop out of the pan upon impact, thus ensuring that the entire pie sticks to the recipient's face. A crust also makes a much funnier visual, because there's just a lot more stuff sticking to the face.

My favorite pies to be hit with are Sara Lee coconut cream pies, although my last pieing was with Marie Callender's brand (pictured way up there at the top of this post). The Marie Callender pies are thicker and heavier than the Sara Lee ones, but on the basis of one pieing, I'm not sure if I prefer them, because I don't think I thawed them enough the one time I took them in my face. A frozen pie needs to be thawed completely, for obvious reasons, but even if it's thawed but on the cold side, it might make for a disappointing pieing if the custard isn't creamy enough in texture. The ideal pieing should leave layers on the recipient's face, not just a coating of whipped cream. There should be cream, followed by custard, followed by the crust.

UPDATE: My most recent pieing -- a self-pieing I administered for the Porphyria Pie Challenge -- involved two Marie Callender pies, which were pretty well-thawed indeed. The first photo on this page is me rocking the first of two Marie Callender pies in my face, and here are Vines of the two hits:

Pretty good! They'd have likely stuck even better (with more of the custard staying on my face instead of falling away with the crust) if I'd let them come even closer to room temperature.

Coconut Cream Pies!

As of this writing, I think that Sara Lee may have reformulated things with their pies a bit, so I'm not sure if their current product is as perfectly ideal for splatting in the face as their old one. Eventually I'll get hit with them, and I'll report my findings in this space. The things I do...

1a. What if I want to make my own pie?

For the artisanal pie-in-the-face experience, it's really pretty easy, although it takes a bit of time. You'll need the following:

:: 1 Frozen pie crust (although they're usually sold in packs of two, which is fine by me, as I never get hit with just one pie)
:: 12 oz container of cool whip, thawed according to directions (just stick it in the fridge and it's thawed in about six hours)
:: 1 package of generic pudding cups (these come in packs of 4, or you can get an equivalent larger tub of pudding)
:: 1 can of Betty Crocker whipped fluffy white frosting, or some other similar whipped frosting

1. Bake the crust according to directions. (Yes, a graham-cracker crust is acceptable, but I prefer the baked version.) Let cool. They cool pretty quickly, actually.

2. When the crust is cool, spoon into one pie all of the four cups of pudding. Smooth with a spatula. This is your custard filling, which gives the pie a nice bit of weight.

3. In a large mixing bowl, whisk the Cool Whip together with half the container of frosting. Then spoon this all onto the top of the pudding in the pie shell.

If you want a nice presentation, you can put some of the cream/frosting mixture into a piping bag and pipe it on, like this:

This results in quite a lovely pie, in my opinion! Add a cherry for a nice decorative garnish, but remember to remove the cherry before the pie is delivered into its designated face.

4. Refrigerate the pie for several hours, so everything sets up nicely. When ready for splatting, let the pie sit out for a little bit -- fifteen minutes or so -- to soften just a touch. These work quite nicely:

(Those first two were just test-pieings, to see how they worked. It's a lot more fun getting pied by someone else.)

2. How do you take a pie in the face, anyway?

If you're the recipient of a pie in your face, your job is easy. You just stand there and get hit with the pie. Afterwards, well -- laugh, smile, giggle, whatever. You can try to hide your face behind your hands, but it's best to just accept that fact that your dignity has been completely blown. Wear the pie on your face with pride!

There will be some natural shock, especially if you're getting pied for the first time. Try and enjoy it! Don't try to wipe it away instantly; let your audience have the pleasure of seeing you with pie all over your face. And if you have long hair, don't bother tying it back; you'll get pie in your hair anyway. It's not that hard to wash out; just rinse more than usual before shampooing.

Smocks and covering up with trash bags is OK...I guess. Goggles? No. Never. Don't do it. And if you wear a shower cap and goggles, shame on you!

3. How do you clean up afterward?

UPDATE 10-3-14: Now we live in a house with a fenced-in yard! This makes clean-up a lot easier. It's all biodegradable, so a bit of time with the garden hose and most of the pie breaks up, melts, and washes away. Nice and easy. If getting pied outside is an option, that's really the way to go. And if you take a change of clothes outside, you can leave your pied clothes out there as well and hose them off before putting them in the wash. Now -- ahem -- depending on how private your yard is, you may wish to wear swim trunks or shorts under whatever outfit you're getting pied in. Yet another wonderful benefit of overalls is that their baggy nature makes this very easy.

Now, if you live in an apartment, well, you can cover whatever area you're using for pieing with drop cloths, or you can just stand in the bathtub. That's what I did during our years of apartment living. After all pies have been splatted, it's an easy matter of turning on the shower and cleaning off. Just shower fully-clothed, it's easier. Break up the big chunks of pie with your toes to send them down the drain. Don't worry, this stuff won't clog your pipes. It dissolves too quickly to do so.

4. Why do you always wear overalls when you get pied?

Because I wear overalls when I do just about everything! Overalls aren't just utilitarian workwear; for me they're a kind of symbol of the kind of whimsical and slightly-eccentric life I want to lead. And you don't get more whimsical or slightly-eccentric than a pie in the face, do you? And besides, overalls are tough and rugged and are always right back to the way they were after a trip through the washer. (It helps that I don't get hit with pies that might stain.)

5. Do you always get hit with more than one pie?

Usually, just because if we're gonna go to the trouble of a pieing, we might as well do it right. Three or four is my max, though. More than that is just overkill.

6. Does it hurt?

If it does, find someone else to hit you. It shouldn't hurt at all. If you watch the videos, you'll see that my wife hits me at times with what looks like quite a bit of force -- but they never hurt. I imagine there's some physics involved with the pie itself absorbing the kinetic energy of the hit as it smooshes onto your face, or something like that. No, it doesn't hurt! And hey, the little bits of toasted coconut might even exfoliate!

7. Smash or smoosh?

I prefer a nice, hard splat that leaves the crust stuck to my face and sends chunks of cream splatter everywhere. But there's something to be said for a nice, gentle smooshing of the pie into the face as well. Here's a brief comparison:

I've never had one thrown into my face. A nicely-thrown pie always looks great when it hits, but I've seen too many such throws go awry and only strike glancing blows. If I'm getting a pie in the face, I want the pie in my face!

8. Doesn't the smell linger in your nose for a while?

Ummm...yeah, usually for a few hours. Small price to pay, in my mind.

9. You pie yourself sometimes?

Sure, although I strongly prefer having someone else do it. It's way more exciting and fun that way. When I pie myself, it's either for effect in a video (my Porphyria Challenge and Pi Day videos) or because I'm testing a new pie brand or method and I want to see how well it works. When I get pied by someone else, I want the pieing to be great!

10. I want to get pied but I'm too nervous to ask someone to do it.

Well...it's been my experience that your real friends won't care much. They'll just factor it into your particular set of weirdnesses. Yes, it's an odd thing to request, and I wanted my wife to pie me for years before I finally asked. But really, once I crossed the hurdle, it's not that big a deal. It's a pie in the face. Just ask.

11. Are 'surprise' pieings OK?

As in, sneaking up behind someone or hiding in a doorway to pie them when they turn around or walk through? I'm not a fan of this. They don't know what's coming, so they'll duck, resulting in a lopsided pie hit and likely splatter all over the place. Heck, I'd react the same way, and I love getting pied. I'm not a big fan of pieings as political protest, either. A pie in the face should be a moment of joy and laughter, not sneers and derision.

12. Isn't this all a little...weird?

Well, yeah. What's your point?

Video stuff

Finally, here are the videos of all my pieings:

This was the first video I made, which is why it's a bit rough.

This one first appeared on the blog here.

This next one coincided with my 40th birthday. Here's the original blog post.

I really like the way this one turned out. It's longer, with 'behind the scenes' stuff. Original blog post.

This next is a video I did for the "Porphyria Pie Challenge", which is one of the pie-in-the-face challenges that came around after the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge took the world by storm. A lot of illnesses were associated with pie challenges, but I chose the porphyria one because I had never heard of it, which seems to me a good example of the whole "raising awareness" thing. (These are self-pieings.)

Pi Day 2015:

You know that "Pie Face" game? Don't play it. You want a game of chance involving a pie in the face? Here you go!

That should cover just about everything I have to say about being pied in the face! (Until I think of something else, that is.)

Pie in the face: Splat! (The final one for now....)

Pie in the face: Priceless!

Pie in the face: Patrick Starfish is surprised by my fate. #PatrickStarfish #pieintheface #overalls #splat

Pie in the face: Motivationally speaking, of course. #overalls #Dickies #pieintheface

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